Ok gang, before you waste your time and mine, please read through my entire profile before contacting me. [B]My motto:[/B] Once a Knight, always a Knight. But once a Night is never enough. [B]First, what/who I am NOT.[/B] A “Power Top” A “Power Bottom” or “Power” anything. A “Bear” A Leather Man Athletic hunk (people tend to be attracted to my perality, not my physique) A sadist A control freak Christian Grey or 50 shades (although if you play that way I will too, but only during play). Looking just to hook up once Looking to hook up with a lot of people Looking to teach those of just a “curious” nature Looking for people who just want a place for a quick orgasm. Looking for people who are not comfortable with their sexuality. Conservative [B]What/Who I AM[/B]. I had a girlfriend who used to call me her “Nerd with an attitude”. An intelligent, creative per looking for intelligent and creative people who enjoy creative sex. Creative positions, using adult toys, role play, dress up play, etc. etc. etc. …... I understand that sex is mostly a mental thing and that the entire body is an erogenous zone. I am very oral with both sexes and enjoy both the feel of a pussy under my tongue and a cock in my throat. I also enjoy a nice hard cock in my ass once in a while. I love doing things to people that they have never experienced before...touch them in ways and places they have never been touched. I would like to find someone who can do the same for me. To me, there is no greater aphrodisiac than a "partner in heat". [B]Ladies[/B], a submissive attitude is NOT required. We can play from bubble bath/massage/candles and such all the way to BDSM. The choice is yours. I absolutely love using my tongue on a freshly shaved pussy and feeling a woman cumming under my mouth gives me an incredible rush. I just love getting people off. I am looking for women who aren't afraid to show their passion or their sexuality. Women not afraid to say “oh yes I like that” rather than always saying “ I don't like that”. Want to grab my head and direct my tongue? Oh please do. Use a vibrator while we fuck? All good to me. Interested in playing with a strap-on? Look me up. Your body isn't as important to me as your mind and your sexual attitude. [B]Guys[/B], a sub attitude IS REQUIRED and you will be bound in some fashion or another....at least at first and we have met a few times. I will explain: I don't have what you would call a huge amount of experience playing with men....but I do have enough to know that the ladies are 100% correct when they say, “Most men are sexually self-centered ass-holes.” Once they get off....”Thanks, we're done here”. I am not like that and I fucking hate it happening to me. If I get off first, you can bet money that I will do my best to help my partner get off as well. If I can't get hard again there are plenty of ways to help my partner. Lips, tongue, fingers and toys. If I am running the show with a guy, then I can control the tempo. I can (usually) keep it from becoming “Slam/Bam/Thank you mam” so to speak. Bottom line, the B in BDSM is required. The DSM part comes in only if that cranks yer tractor. [B]Couples[/B] I am usually willing to go along for ride so to speak. [B]What/Who I am looking for:[/B] For me, a pers physique isn't as important as their mind. I am looking for a few select playmates who I click with on more than a sexual level. NSA is fine but I would really like to find a couple of regulars....not really looking for a one night stand..but those things do happen and sometimes people find out they don't click during or after play. I would really like to find folks who have some of the same interests as me outside of sex....FWB I guess most people here call it. But that is not required. I have no problem with it being all about a sensual experience. As far as M/M play it is really about the guy's attitude. I enjoy CDs and TGs. Passable or not. I'd love to find someone, male or female who would get off on playing fashion model. We could spend some fun times with you putting on different cute outfits. Each one I would slowly remove....Mmmmm. As far as BDSM: I am not “In the lifestyle”. I enjoy lots of different sexual experiences as you can see by my toy collection. Outside of a sexual situation I am neither a sadist nor a masochist. Inside, I very much enjoy either the dominant or submissive role. Although it takes a special partner for me to play the sub role (I have trust issues :-D ) Notice I use dominant and submissive....I am never a sadist. If a partner enjoys pain with their pleasure, I enjoy giving it to them because they enjoy it. But I don't give pain because it turns me on just to torture someone. And while I am not afraid to voice my opinion, I am not really a dominant type of perality. I happen to find the bound human form to be very erogenous and enjoy the creativity it allows. Rope, leather, latex, benches, frames....very sensual. For some people, relinquishing control of their body to another per gives them a sexual high. The release from having to make decisions is spiritually freeing. For some people in a sexual situation, pain can be a very intense aphrodisiac. Some like a little and some like a lot. Some don't like it at all. If you like it, cool. We can play that way. If you don't like it, cool. We don't have to play that way.

My Ideal Person Someone who knows that sex should take awhile and that the most important erogenous zone is the mind.

Someone who enjoys creative sex and isn't afraid to bring toys into play.

Some folks say that "make-up sex" is the best.
Some folks say that "angry sex" is the best sex.
I say that two or more highly turned on partners make for the best sex.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, My parents' front lawn, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, Fill in YOUR fetish here

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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