I am a early forty something straight white male, athletic build, 5'11", 170 lbs with a 7 1/2" cock who enjoys life to the fullest. I have been repeatedlyv told that I look (and feel) in my early 30's. I lift, run and swim several days a week to keep myself in shape; my pictures here are current! I consider myself moderately educated (multiple advanced degrees), well travelled (over 70 countries) and able to carry an intelligent conversation on a wide variety of topics. I enjoy meeting new people, and if the chemistry is right, getting to know them more intimately, hopefully enabling them to have multiple orgasms! UPDATE: I have met some great people on this site that we have had some great adult fun together or just a nice time meeting and talking if the chemistry wasn't there. But I am also starting to see larger numbers of people who are here for the views only. I am interested in meeting a few "good" people to share great times with. If you change your mind about meeting, please have the courtesy to let me know that you have changed your mind about meeting. Last attempts (you know who you are) left me standing at the restaurant or bar waiting for someone to show. I realize that every encounter will not have the chemistry to proceed further (that's life) but hope that people will have the common courtesy to cancel if they decide not to show. I am not Ken, and I am not looking for Barbie (wouldn't mind ;-)) My pursuit of my golf game allows me to travel a great deal (mostly to Florida, North and South Carolina, Virginia and Georgia although I am starting to travel to California and the mid West) and I can play at home or on the road; discretion both ways is always honored. I am not looking for a long term relationship; I just got out of a bad one and want to play safely for awhile. I prefer women, couples or groups - from 1 on 1's to the larger groups. I am straight, but not really concerned who's hand, tongue or mouth is on me when involved in a group event! UPDATE: I am straight and [I][B]NOT [/B][/I]interested in a one on one "bicurious" encounter with a guy." I believe very much in the woman "cumming" first in my activities and respect other people's limits. I am very oral (both giving and receiving) nothing is better than a long 69 session, although giving moustache rides to the ladies comes a very close second. I can come several times in an evening with the right woman (or women!) and enjoy all sexual positions, but have to admit my favorite is doggie! I am an active nudist and love to "perform" in front of a camera or audience. Role playing is great fun and I have a variety of erotic costumes. I am open to almost anything with the right per or group - except pain. I have enjoyed mild anal play and am eagerly anticipating receiving my first rim job, if you are interested. UPDATE: Experienced my first rim job recently and it was a mind blowing experience! Looking forward to the next! I am drug and disease free and intend to stay that way - safe sex is a must. I enjoy swapping photos and stories - the more erotic the better. ;-) Looking forward to hearing from you!

My Ideal Person Females, couples and groups who are willing to let loose their inhibitions and let their sexual libidoes take over! Honesty is important.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My favorite personal fantasy is for me to be standing naked
in front of a roaring fireplace in a mirrored room and a woman
kneeling in front of me sucking me off while caressing my
butt. My ultimate fantasy is to have an awesome threesome
with two women where one lady deep throats me in this position
while her girlfriend simultaneously tongues and fondles
my ass. After they took turns in tongueing and sucking,
they switched to both sucking me (double blow job) then
we finished up with me stretched out on the floor on a bearskin
rug with the ladies taking turns riding my cock and tongue
simultaneously, switching off until all three of us come
over and over.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
My favorite fantasy would be with Sandra Bullock and Nicole Kidman repeating my fantasy above.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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