I work hard & play just as hard therefore I have the worst 2 issues to have simultaneously..... I have a very hectic life with a very strong sex drive. You combine this with the fact that I do not seek to be in a relationship right and well.....I'm here. Its not that I'm totally opposed to being in a relationship, just don't seek it. I am an avid believer in the axiom that the greatest joys in one's life are found OUTSIDE ONE'S BOX. I travel a lot. I'm known to steer clear of the tourist-safe areas. This should give a idea of my adventurous nature. I love meeting people from all walks of life. "Barriers are meet to be tested" will be the inscription on my headstone. Following this adage I've made my share of mistakes but those same mistakes have given my a great story to tell that is not CLOSE to being over. The I make no promises of being that charming prince on a white but i go through my relationships with a primary objective…. You will absolutely NEVER REGRET having opened a friendship with me.

My Ideal Person Confident. .... decisive. ....... intelligent. .. passionate. ... She must Love the skin she's in. Energy levels are a big turn-on for me. Not opposed to bubbly personalities but that's not the type of "energy" I mean. If you're here, on this site to "punish yourself" in some form, think so little men or that people are "simple objects" on earth to please YOU (other than when thats the mood I'm in ) I'm not the one for you spend even a small amount of time with. I"m attracted to A LADY. the type of lady that comes with a dirty secret that she can't wait to reveal once I've given her a "comfortzone" to become uninhibited. I have no particular "taste" physically other than it shows that she cares about her appearance. Only problem I have with ethnicity is that I wish we came in MORE varieties… Do you feel any of this applies to you?