Hey. I am a 27 year old married female. What I am looking for seems simple enough, but it is apparently not that simple. I want a guy that can be my friend first and foremost. Now it starts to get complicated. I would ideally like him to also be friends with my Husband. I would like him to hang out and sneak around right in my own home and when we are all out being super naughty without my Husband ever having a clue. I have permission from my Husband to see anyone I want as long as I would like, but I don't think my Husband really thinks I would ever see anyone else. The rules my Husband created say I don't have to tell him so I have no intentions of doing so. I want to be naughty and have an affair right under his nose. So, the guy must be able to be sneaky and never tell. He also can like me, love me, and be as emotional as he feels comfy with, but he has to know his place, so to speak, which is very simple. I love my husband. My Husband is my soul mate, and I will be with him till he dies. So, understand that, and be ok with the fact you may not try to derail that, because that will just not happen ever. I will get you out of my life no matter how much we click or I like or care about you. So, I want this guy that I want to meet to be my life long friend forever, and ever, and I want to try new things, and do things that would likely make my Husband cry if he knew the details, but in the end you can never forget that this is all it will ever be, and be ok with that fact, and not get weird, and please don't let your emotions get out of control and ring this by getting creepy like the guys I have tried this with so far. I say all it will ever be, but, hell, how cool is this? Saying all it will ever be is sooo not a real description of the friendship and super hotness I seek.. This could be a great thing for everyone, This situation could even be huge for my Husband if you as good a friend to us as we would be to you. Well that's all I have to say. Ok, let us see how this works.