Can’t read any messages unless you have Standard Contacts. Try IM (barely works but worth a try) if I’m online. Otherwise find a different wa y I live alone and can host. Willing to travel too if you can. Please, please read my profile, before messaging me, and see if you feel were compatible before messaging. And please, for the love of the Goddess!!! say more than just Hi (hint include your profile text at least and a pic from your profile) especially in IM since I can’t see your profile and need to use points to then find out we’re not even close to compatible. About me: Experienced (10 years in the lifestyle), very oral, pan, kinky Switch - SSC but mostly sensual, sensation and sexual but I will play at a RACK level with trusted partners. Im a professional, clean, single (divorced) guy looking for like minded, fun, adventurous women, men and couples to play with (alone and|or with others). A regular thing would be awesome. Open to outside the bedroom friendships too. Im a huge outdoors guy. —————- NSA fun first and foremost. Not looking to change anyones situation. Would like a fwb though. Ready to play in person. Im flexible with days & times (weekdays - days & evenings possible) but need to plan/schedule as I can rarely do anything last minute. If I can I will. I actually show up. A previous girlfriend (well shes still a fwb but sadly very long distance) and I were stood up many times even last minute after we had gotten a hotel to play in. Sure we enjoyed ourselves anyway but its kind of a mood killer. Not looking for endless messaging or pic swapping. I want REAL and hands on but we should talk first. Im a business exec with a wicked wild side. Engage the mind and my body is yours. Well yours is mine too. Love Shibari so youll not be going anywhere while I feast if thats your thing too. Couples? Yes, Im bi and vers. So are many many of the straight guys here. I get it and thats their choice to keep it secret. Im very masculine looking and acting. Nobody but my kinky friends, playmates from here and my LD lover know Im bi. For couples with straight guys yet looking for MFM or other moresomes Im not gonna rub off on you. Honestly. Ive been the Bull, role played the cuck, enjoy being the sensual lover some are looking for and fully embrace my wicked Dom side as well as being a good little sub. I’m a total Switch. Don’t underestimate our skills, depth or intensity. Try us, you’ll like us. Consent is key for great play. Im not going to do anything without it. Boundaries are vital to respect and honor. All that said many threesome etc. scenarios are much less awkward if youre at least bi-friendly. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\********* Just FYI for Gold folks - We can’t read any messages unless you have Std. Contacts. For those that do… Thank you! Sadly though, I (standard members) still cant see most Gold members written profiles at all. Definitely not pics. No indication who has std contacts either and if messages can be read. So that s why I might seem to be ignoring you all. Find a different wa y… For those who’ve been messaging me in the past… Cant see previous convos. Ugh. IM barely works here so send a regular message if you re interested AND have Std. Contacts. (Please include a photo if you have none on your profile - Im NOT going to out you!).

My Ideal Person Ideal playmates? While we would all like the hot, beautiful, adventurous next door neighbor; that is like hitting Lotto. So for me if you are 30, 69 or even more minutes away that is fine. I am primarily looking for a kinky, bi woman or couple that is willing to add others into our, hopefully regular, fun.

Do I need to say, “Please wear your heels?”
Ok. Please!!! Pretty please even. Whipped cream and a cherry on top too!

While I have preferences, I really dont have a race, body type, hair color etc. requirement except PLEASE be HWP. Dad and mom bods are ok!

Ladies? Some of you think you are BBW. Many of you thinking so are deliciously full figured. Mmmm yes please. I find many folks attractive, alluring, sexy, hot. Its all in your attitude and if you are a decent person. I will respect you and your limits, please respect mine. Need to be discreet? Your secret desires and fantasies filled are safe with me. Still reading? Good, I like others whos brain is on. Its our largest sex organ after all...

If youve read this far thank you.
Interested? Send a message with Sapio so I’ll know. You move to the front of the line. So far in well over a year only two of you have read this far. Sadly far too many of you just go dark. Were all adults here. No longer interested? Just say so. No worries. It is what it is.

Ok, needs to be said to all you grey ghosts out there. I get it, you want to be uber discreet. But seriously nobody is going to recognize your dick pics so post, or send privately, something. Or use your words in your bio. Yes, I read them or what youll send me.

VSafe guy here too. Fully vaxxd and boosted. I am DDF and test regularly. Last was in Sept, 2023. Also on PrEP just to play it even safer. 420 friendly though I dont smoke or vape.