Since we are using a free account, we can't see most messages sent to us. Find us on Reddit and fetlife under the name BontempsYYR to message. My plus sized Hotwife(44/bi - M50 straight) is interested in guys who are going to take the time to get to know her and what SHE wants. You? Maybe a bit nerdy or loves music. She doesn't care about sports, or your car. She's passionate wants to have a connection with someone who is going take the time to seduce her. Age - 35ish to the early 50's? She likes beards that aren't of control and while you don't have to be a body builder or model, she would appreciate someone that at least has some muscle and isn't a slob. She would like you to be 7+ inches. Having a vasectomy to the front of the line. She is bi so a couple isn't out of the question either. 😉 We enjoy an occasional drink and are 420 friendly. Want to get to know us and see some pics? DM me and let's chat!

My Ideal Person Males - Someone who doesn't send a dick pic as a first message along with "hey". Wants to take the time to get to know us and become friends. If you can't entertain my wife's mind, you won't be entertaining her body. 🤷‍♂️ Starting off with your a little about yourself and favorite music is a good start. Not having a dick pic as your profile picture is ++++++

Couples - People we can become friends with as well and there's a great vibe between the 4 of us. We would love to find a couple we can travel with. Playing away from home can be a hell of a lot of fun!