[COLOR royalblue] I don't guess I can lay claim to being a newcomer to this lifestyle. After all I actually run the local munch group, The Lexington Fetish Society. One thing I am determined to insure during my reign of terror, this will not be the cliquish group I joined in November of 2008. I refuse to allow a cool s table to exist in my group! Members may have their circle of friends, but as leader of this group I will strive to see that I am friend to all of my flock. New folks will find me introducing myself to them before the seat they are sitting in has time to get warm. I hope that by my example, my members will follow, and thus far they have![/COLOR] [i]A munch group offers a new explorer advantages. Odds are If they are showing up for dinner, myself or one of the other members knows a lot more than their screen name on here. If they have been around for a while other subs or Dom/mes have probably been around them when they have played[/I] [COLOR blue]I love restraining submissives in rope or leather cuffs. Yes I have wielded a flogger many times, a riding crop, paddle, a stick used to stir five gallon buckets of paint, and even a leather belt, during scenes enough times that some would consider me as kinky as a striped ass snake. That said, let me state unequivocally that I would prefer this lifestyle not encompass my entire life. There are times, I will admit that running a BDSM munch group sometimes makes me feel like this lifestyle has consumed my life. Fortunately my relations with women, so far seem to be immune [/COLOR] [I]While I consider myself to be Sensual Dom, I do admit that I enjoy grabbing a handful of hair and forcing a sub to her knees, over the arm of a chair, or across my knee for a spanking, just because I can. I enjoy the sight of a woman with her skirt up and panties to her knees as much as the actual spanking itself.[/I] One would have to recognize that the mere fact that a submissive woman is willing to place herself at my mercy to be a very special gift indeed. Something about the pinkness I just imparted upon that exposed flesh of a sweetly submissive derriere drives me wild. Before I make my self look totally out there, let me state that I am not looking for a 24 hour a day / 7 day a week submissive. I am looking for a woman to have a long term relationship with. One that friends and acquaintances would see as a good match. [I]I desire a woman that would make a good lover, even a good wife. A lady that doesn't pick needless fights, but will stand her ground when the situation calls for it. A woman that likes kinky games regularly, but wants to see her dreams and opinions valued and respected. Yes behind closed doors expect me to be forceful. But I desire a life partner as well. To me, D/s is a leather case hidden under the corner of the bed of life. A loving committed couple brings it out a few nights a month, when they desire a walk on the wild side. In the morning it gets packed back away and is the source of shared secret smiles for days to come.[/I] I guess I should also confess to being a nerd. I am not much for most of what passes for entertainment. I have never wanted to watch reality TV, from the trailers it is easy to tell that they have no concept of reality. I am not much for movies, however I will tolerate them while on a date. I tend to be somewhat of a news and political junkie, therefore, if I am watching TV in the evening it is probably something on KET. While I like many kinds of music, I tend to listen to NPR during drive time in the mornings and evenings. As for myself, I am found to be well versed in the ways of Redneck Southern Culture, but no my pickup does not have a gun rack in the rear window. I am somewhat opinionated, & oddly enough rather conservatively liberal in my political leanings. While I am not a wealthy per I am not close to bankruptcy either. Socially I am a beer drinker. The redneck in me, finds shocking my taste for an expensive single malt scotch on the rocks, when contentedly relaxing on the porch at home. I am interested in a wide variety of subjects outside of sex and submission. I also find myself in search of a quiet little piece of land outside of Lexington as an escape from the hustle and bustle of modern life. While I will still have to earn my daily bread in an urban locale, I would like to have a place to retreat from the noise on the weekends. If your intrigued by what you've read or have further questions, I invite you to message me and ask them. I rarely bite and that's usually only if I am asked too! By the way, unless I have you tied up during a scene, my name is actually Bill, and I would prefer to refer to you by yours as well!

My Ideal Person My hope is for a discreet exorcism of our kinky desires, behind closed doors, with only occasional displays in public, in ways only known to us. Toss in an occasional local lifestyle party for a walk on the wild side.

If I were looking, the qualities that I would find attractive in a female submissive are quite simple really:

A woman that realizes that while bedroom bondage is fun, it is the vanilla of everyday life that makes us whole.

A woman comfortable in her own feminine skin.

A lady that is not looking for a life of total submission, but for the occasional spice that renews a passion for life and love.

Someone reasonably mature
Someone gainfully employed.
Someone that's reasonably happy.

A lady that likes to be a somewhat naughty on regular occasions.

A woman that's equally at home with Vanilla friends, but likes to whisper in her lovers ear over dinner for two in an intimate restaurant, "I just don't know where my mind was while I was dressing. Somehow I forgot to put any panties on." Then sitting back with a shy smile and relishing the fact that she has just lit the fire for a night of animalistic passion.

I guess that my ideal submissive would be someone that would want for a Dom to spend more time building her up as breaking her down. Someone that perhaps would enjoy the Bondage - D/s dynamic, but also desires affection, tenderness, and nurturing from any relationship she is involved in.

I have one hard and fast rule:

I am single, you need to be too!

Some of the areas that I would like to explore with a submissive are: Shibari, Electrosex, Flogging, Vacuum stimulation of nipples, breast, clitoris & labia.

I am fascinated by hypnosis and would like to find a submissive interested in exploring it with me.
Restraining a submissive in a sling, suspended from a tree, in a clearing in a forest, and taking great pleasure in the exploring the delights of her sexuality in the great outdoors is a fantasy of mine.
Admittedly, I am totally enamored with those rare women that squirt. Even if you don't please understand I consider it my lot in life to show you how. I have been told by many that they can't, but more than 50% of my lovers the last few years have found out that they can

I am far less concerned with body beautiful, than with emotional compatibility and the ability to engender trust between us. If those needs were met, then I would have no problem with making room in my life for a cherished submissive / significant other. While I am sure to many here, that my wants would be considered to Vanilla for serious consideration, I am confident that there are some here that would find these ideals to be desirable to them. Naturally I would always respect the limits that a submissive might want to see observed.

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