Open minded and sexually versatile; in terms of intimate acts, there's very little that I won't try or am not excited by. Kink-positive, experienced in BDSM, mostly as a dominant. Inclusive to all. Bull, top, master, daddy. I'm a consultant and academic who is engages with ideas and challenges of the world. I love design, technology, and the life of the mind. In play I am trust-worthy, dominant, caring but insistent, challenging you to move beyond the envelope. I want to know that dark, unrelenting and exciting fantasy that you could never fully voice to anyone: the essence of your kink. I want to push into an honest, vulnerable, and living place where pleasure and pain blend. I am V-safe, DD-free — fully tested and clean, and fully vaccinated. Married in an open relationship; no cheating and no baggage. That said, trust, discretion and safety are still very important to me. I prefer to meet sooner rather than later.

My Ideal Person Perhaps you’re that hot soccer mom I’ve seen in Lulu. Or the government exec in the tight pencil skirt and heels, looking over your glasses at me. Regardless, you behave yourself in public, but want nothing more than to explore in the bedroom.

I like to approach each new relationship with an open mind and determine the pace and pattern of the dance dependent upon the needs of my partner. Testing chemistry and compatibility on levels more than the physical is exciting in and of itself. Slowly unveiling someone's nature and their desires is a dance that I never tire of.

Ottawa can be a small town, and I would not be surprised if we have a friend of a friend in common. Like you, I believe in discretion, respect and trust.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Eva Green

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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