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Dating in real life
I been on 10 dates so far since my divorce which was last Sep. So far with no real luck here. I think fellows are only interested in sex. What happened to romantic guys?
Can anyone give any pointers what I am missing? Being back into the dating game sure sucks. Sorry if you have not seen me around Misterate.
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HANG IN THERE VIXEEN!!!
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I am taking one day at a time.
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You are so right in saying that a lot of men are simply sex crazed. That seems to be near normal. But what sets some men apart from others is a factor of maturity. Of course, I love sex...a lot...but having sex is one thing....making love to a woman is another. I consider myself a hopeless romantic and simply love to inflict the pleasures of making a woman feel at ease and as much of a woman as possible. Calling her just to say hello..asking her how her day is going...maybe just listening to her as she speaks..complementing her for no reason other than she deserves it.
Part of the arousal between a man and a woman is the interactions that take place far before the actual physical intimacies. Being that gentleman and not rushing her into a bed and maybe spending time with her talking, listening, finding out what makes you both compatible and what doesn't. The ability to make her feel at ease and not that quick easy lay that leaves her felling empty and used for your personal satisfaction. Spending time being real together and totally at ease with one another.
Some men think that being romantic and passionate is for the wimp...not so. A real man is filled with passion and creates the romance every moment he is with a woman. The word gentleman has a lot of meaning here and should be practiced more often. Dinner, dancing, laughter, good manners, light hearted moments that allow your emotions to just spill out and allow you to be yourself....all of these actions are part of the romance that sets an evening or a person into a mood of sensuality..and a even the desire for intimacy. So much can begin with a soft casual conversation over a drink, dinner or a moment spent together that allows your partner to feel so good about herself and what is happening at that moment.
As for the physical part....taking the time for foreplay..the appreciation of a woman in her entirety and not just the groping of her breasts and pumping your hips into her...is certainly something that will set the both of you on fire. As the fire builds..the ultimate climax is certainly not the only the moment that will be most remembered as both of you have poured all the right emotions into the pot and built the fire to it's highest peak....the journey getting there is as memorable as the final climax....plus the aftermath is even as wonderful, as you fall into each others arms..exhausted..spent and totally mesmerized by the wonders that have just taken place. Soft kisses..gentle caresses....your legs rubbing in between each others..the warmth of each others body so close together..feeling her heart beating hard against your chest...Mmmmmmm...great moments that seem to trigger the want to stay together and stoke the fires again and again.
So you see my dear..there are men that do practice romance and have a strong passion for a woman. Unfortunatly, a woman must kiss ten frogs before she finds a prince. Be patient and look for that passionate man....weed out the boys and the sex crazied guys...you will find him!
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I hate dating, but I guess it's the natural process..? I've been a widower since 01, and have dated dozens, maybe hundreds of women. I have narrowed it down to two, but one's married, and the other, I have dated for 43 yrs, and never was quite right..? I just got tired of the process, although I'm always looking, I am very choosy about anyone I go out with now..!
Hang in their Foxy, someone will come along for both of us ..lol
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Some will come along. Everyone finds someone in life.
Look at me I found my true love.
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Someone..............................can't type here.
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There are many men and women that are looking for the wrong things. I agre with VM, there is someone for everyone, the problem is finding that someone. For me, I thought I would never find my true love, the one that completes me, but I have. Traveling down a path, not knowing why your there, but feeling compelled to go down a path, then meeting your one special person. The point is, you must travel down many paths, but one will lead you to that special someone.
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Now I cant type, must be contagious, or could it be looking at those scrumptious calves ankles and feet above?
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like scorpio says love it will come when u least expect it and from someone you least would think of
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Ty for all the comments here. I am trying but it is very hard. Who do you trust out there.
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Sky - I know you have found this women of your dreams. I only hope I can find this one person. I am happy for you both.
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Tell us how your last date was?
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Foxy, sometimes that special someone has been there all along. You will meet that special someone, but you cannot try in doing it. It will happen when you least expect it.
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Foxy, thank you from both of us.
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I am still looking. Thanks everyone, time will only time.
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V - I am not talking about that last date. All he wanted was sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Foxy, was he someone you met here..? All men want sex, but some have more patience, and class about asking..? Now, as far as I am concerned, and at my young age, lol I am more interested in the woman, but the thought of sex is always there..!
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Passion and romance...is it a lost art of seduction...do all men just walk around with a pepetual hard-on? When do they realize that if you can't capture a woman's mine..then her heart....you will never reach a point of pleasurable intimacy with her!!!!! I am simply baffled...I grew up being taught on how to a gentleman and how to appreciate a lady.....
my dear fox...don't give up or into the sex only approach by these so called men. There are real gentlemen out there and when you least expect it..probably the day you swear off of men..that one will bump into you by accident and you will realize this guy is the real deal!!!
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Foxy lots of good comments here for you... Sit back and read them all.
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Hang in there Foxy. I found someone from this site and now we are living together for about a year now. You can meet some very nice people on here.
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City cool lucky you..
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