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Why Are You Here on AFF?  

coast717 52M
2 posts
9/20/2018 6:51 pm
Why Are You Here on AFF?

Again, I'm writing because I'm bored and seeing things that aren't right in eyes.

AdultFriendFinder is a sex and swinger site. Now I'm not saying you can't find your soul mate here, but if I was looking for a soul mate I'd go a dating site. If you are looking for a "LTR" in your profile, you might be that bitchy post after a years. It isn't about what people do, it's about what people expect. I have met people on here and had great night and others that went on for years. Neither situation was known going into it. I don't meet someone with the expectation of sex and I try to put that there. I love good conversation over drinks, movies, just making , etc so I'm generally a winner either way if I get any of that satisfied. I have also met women did not have good hygiene, were way too negative, did drugs, etc. I just try to be the gentleman, entertain the night, for whatever, make an excuse and go home. I'm not going list your problems. BTW, it has be a personal problem because I like women every size, color, and shape. They are like fingerprints, all different and unique but personality seals the deal both before and after sex. Conversation and basic human touch, like great kissing, go along way for desire. Some men don't need desire perform, but I do. Most men don't need desire also use prostitutes. Risky business either way I suppose. I would rather have some trust going into it though so I get the willingness to get what I'm after.

Just some thoughts. If you don't agree with any of post, that's OK. I'm not writing them judge anybody. I'm writing them so women interested in me might see what I'm about before they . I'm military, conservative in politics, and I drive Fords so you may find flawed in many ways. Good night!

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/21/2018 3:21 am

 Why Are You Here on AdultFriendFinder? .... Doesn't matter.

Now I'm not saying you can't find your soul mate here, ... Good chance anyone won't, because , if you haven't already read them, people say they've been here for so long they think they have friends here, and really hesitant to end their profile. That happens a lot.

but if I was looking for a soul mate I'd go to a dating site. ... This is a dating site.. people come here to date [to get sex].
If someone wants a soulmate... they should go to social-sites, not "Date" sites. They'd have a better chance.

I don't meet someone with the expectation of sex ... You should have your hopes up. "Sex" is why you're meeting them from a sex site...

I love good conversation.... Don't over do the conversation, they may get the idea you're only wanting to her gay friend.

over drinks, movies, .. .Always be sure they buy their own drinks and movie tickets.. That way you'd have a better idea they want to be with you, instead of getting free drinks and free entertainment off you.

I just try to be the gentleman, entertain the night, pay for whatever, ... Today that's called being a sucker. In your grandfathers day, that was called being a gentleman. Today? A man would an idiot for doing that. Women would take complete advantage of him. You do understand that women make money, too , and can buy herself stuff?

Most men who don't need desire also use prostitutes..... Don't make up a reality... prostitutes have all kinds of customers... even men who do need desire.

I would rather have some trust going into it though so I get the willingness to get what I'm after.... Really? Then stop paying for woman's food, drink and entertainment.... Learn to see if you can trust she wants to be with you for sex , and not for free stuff.

married, ... ooo you should have left that as classified information.


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