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Ideal first meeting location  

nastytease4U 46F  
12123 posts
2/11/2018 7:32 am

Last Read:
2/17/2018 4:57 am

Ideal first meeting location

Here is an interesting question, what do you think is the best place to meet someone that you have chatted with on AdultFriendFinder. While you are pondering the question, this would be a good time to post any meetings you have had, (good and bad)

My first meeting locals:

2 guys were invited over to our house
4 guys and one couple we met at a hotel room
1 couple we met at a dance club
a large number we met at a house party
Hotel
bar
coffee shop
movie theater
home
adult themed club or party
restaurant
dance club
mall
I have never met someone from AFF or similar site


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
2/11/2018 8:13 am

I've mostly met new ladies at local bar/restaurants, as the provide a nice place to chat and we don't need to worry if the discussions become a bit naughty.

Three favorite "meeting" memories, that don't follow the scenario above:

1. The VERY FIRST lady I ever met via A*F*F - It was a classic story of starts and stops / conflicting schedules. FINALLY one day she just told me to meet her at a local park. We did, and she immediately grabbed my hand and lead me down a walking trail. Very soon, she lead me off the trail, pulled out my cock, and sucked me off till I came, and gave me the "look I swallowed it all" view. I was "thinking - MAN, A*F*F is fun!!"

2. The third A*F*F lady I ever met just told me to get a room. She showed up and we were having sex within about 5 minutes.

3. A blogger lady I'd never met, invited me down to her ranch for a long weekend. For reasons STILL not clear to me, she told me to get a room at a local hotel for nights 1 + 2, after which we'd go stay at her ranch. The week before my visit was full of mutual speculation as to how long till we were nekkid after first meeting. I reset the clock a bit, but being nekkid when she showed up at the hotel room.

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Adultmindedguy 46M
5 posts
2/11/2018 8:27 am

Home worls best for me! Comfortable mot creepy and good place to fuck!!!


HollyChatsNJ 65T
2792 posts
2/11/2018 8:28 am

Living in a shore resort area. I have it very easy to meet people. I just use the boardwalk to meet face to face.

I've been on AdultFriendFinder on and off for about 6 years. I used to meet all the time.

What I look for now is so different than what it once was so I don't meet like I once did.

If I was still in my old ways. There is a perfect adult club here in Atlantic City called RolePlay.

~Holly
Atlantic City, NJ


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
2/11/2018 8:36 am

Much like Cleavage fan, I met a few off the old AOL chat rooms. Mom's online was a good one. Had a few instant connections if you know what I mean..
But mostly coffee or lunch meetings to start out.
Met one woman with her husband and played golf with them. Great time. Still friends today.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/11/2018 9:10 am

I voted bar, but sports bars more specifically.

I've had about a dozen meets since I joined in 12/13. Most have ended up having sex in various places (hotel, park, their place, my place). Of those most led to multiple meetings. A couple became sort of regular things. A*F*Fs been good to me so far.

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happytmes2 68M
668 posts
2/11/2018 9:29 am

The first meet was at a restaurant bar. The second was at my home. Two more at Starbucks


AZBiGuy480 60M
27 posts
2/11/2018 9:36 am

I have meet at a restaurant, bar, hotel, a party at a hotel, there house, and my house.


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
2/11/2018 10:04 am

I prefer to meet at a quieter bar the first time, after that a hotel is best.


funeye 40M
83 posts
2/11/2018 10:43 am

dance club.....


TravelingMan524 71M
241 posts
2/11/2018 7:06 pm

Coffee shop, restaurant, or bar if she is shy.
Hotel of the chat has been hot or if in a hurry.


gooodloven2 70M
381 posts
2/11/2018 8:13 pm

parking lot in front of restaurant or bar or at a park it is easy to see a car , so what do you drive .


tnt6969694 70M
221 posts
2/11/2018 11:09 pm

I personally prefer the coffee shop as it offers a neutral - no pressure location.


quest4thrills00 59M/52F
7 posts
2/12/2018 12:16 am

Most of the time we have met people at a restaurant. We did meet one guy at his hotel room.


LOVEORAL4HOURS5 49M
21 posts
2/12/2018 10:06 am

House or Hotel would work best


submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
2/12/2018 11:17 am

Always used to meet at a coffee shop, in public. Chat for awhile, to get a sense of them in person.

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huntersenpai666 35M

2/12/2018 6:18 pm

bar, somewhere public, yet discreet.


fadey66 60M
43 posts
2/12/2018 11:51 pm

You have a beautiful body and I have a beautiful and wonderful rod that can meet with some add friend thank you


bisexualcharle69 59M

2/13/2018 5:12 am

all though it is nice meeting people from these sites. the best place for the first time is a hotel that way they don't know where u live. if things don't workout


OldrHarleyGuy 72M

2/13/2018 7:07 am

For myself, it's a restaurant or bar if it's her preference. Am not into jumping into anything real quick and gives both time to find out more about each other. I've had those that were "meet greet and lets go"!, sorry, is just not my thing, it takes me a little while to warm up and want to know more about someone before all that happens. I don't need to know a person's whole life story either, but it helps me define if that person is a good probable match or not, just to chat awhile and be as open as possible. I guess in this day and age that makes me somewhat old fashioned, but hey, that's who I am..
As for meeting here on this site, yes, have had 4 meets from over the past 2 yrs, all of which began pretty well, but ended in disaster because of the untold stories and misleading information found after the first several dates and it wasn't on my part, thankfully to say.


aniceride 53M  
117 posts
2/13/2018 8:33 am

my first meetings are always in public to make sure there is comfort level.you can write or talk to someone till your blue in the face but you never really know until you actually meet.my meetings are always under the pretense of not jumping into to bed after two minutes lol.


hapamale 53M
68 posts
2/13/2018 11:40 am

some kind of drink always help, even coffee.


Saranghae2 52F
206 posts
2/13/2018 11:46 am

i won't meet anyone indoors. i just simply prefer meeting other ppl outdoors instead... usually at a park.

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dessertgarden 54F
33 posts
2/13/2018 12:29 pm

My most favorite, still on-going, was at a local grocery store. Multi-tasking, it worked out wonderfully well I will forever look for avocados every time I step into a produce section!


camperdude_69 63M
4641 posts
2/13/2018 1:57 pm

I think a coffee shop... for first meeting


tyrantcapri 51M
24 posts
2/13/2018 2:53 pm

damn, anywhere where the clothes could be shed withing five minutes, I hate formal interactions, and I found the best way to get past that is with a good fuck, suddenly, its as if we've known each other for years.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
2/13/2018 3:24 pm

Usually meet at Bars or Sex Partys


slowrider136911 62M
269 posts
2/13/2018 6:56 pm

I like a coffee shop. Quick and easy. If it's a single girl, I'll do lunch as well. Couple would be coffee or maybe a bar. Pretty much a safe public place. Lot of flakes out there!


Pale_Guy 30M
66 posts
2/14/2018 1:46 am

Coffee shop or restaurant. I always meet people in public first.


asslover9988 53M
139 posts
2/14/2018 8:50 am

hotels, bars , mall


WantUToWantMeToo 54M

2/14/2018 10:22 am

Safe, neutral and non threatening environment. At least you get a coffee if it doesn’t work out or she’s a no show. Lol


JohnInNebraska 63M
188 posts
2/14/2018 11:04 am

I met a couple at a bar which worked out great, In regards to the question I believe the best place is at a coffee shop, bar or somewhere in the public is the best places to meet.


sanots123 58M/58F
23 posts
2/15/2018 2:37 am

Of course, we meet only at a public place - restaurant, coffee shop, bar, park - anything.
Only once in Bangkok, we were invited directly into a condo for a group setting ------------- AND BOY, we did enjoy ourselves.


fahiem2010 52M
67 posts
2/15/2018 1:19 pm

\8b if your meeting don't go well I'm in Orwigsburg let's me.


GIdontknow_134 66M
270 posts
2/15/2018 3:29 pm

Hi nasty:

I've met up with women (from online) at bars, restaurants, a pool hall, a coffee shop, a hotel, a mall, one woman's home, the home of a friend of a woman, Meet & Greets and probably a few other places that I'm forgetting. I think the most important thing is picking a place that satisfies her (and your) security needs. That tends to leave out meeting at your home.

HTH,

G


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
2/15/2018 7:24 pm

I say Coffee Shop. cause if things don't click. still ok cause it won't take too long. and both can go on their way after that. short and simple.

But I have to say that I have met several members from this site at my my place. that is because I have talk to them some much over the blogs and talk to them over the phone that I felt comfortable to do so. but I always let my roommate know when someone is going to visit, that way he knows just in case. and sometimes he is here in his room just to make sure. but so far every meeting has been very pleasant.


playtoy484 60M
103 posts
2/16/2018 9:11 am

The ones i have met have been right in there own bedroom...


EvelynJMN 64T
8 posts
2/16/2018 10:36 pm

Always try to make it a public venue - bar/restaurant usually.


jayandkayforfun 45M/43F

2/16/2018 11:25 pm

as a single man i have met 2 AdultFriendFinder couples at there homes one female was naked as i walked in and the other was fully dressed but not for long and as for now as a couple we have not got to that point of meeting yet so cant answer


wincardium 61F  
8 posts
2/17/2018 12:01 am

I prefer meeting people in public for the first time. There's a great local bar that's near me and perfect for meeting people. I also like coffee shops and of course, Starbucks.

While I have done it twice, I just don't think it's a good idea for a female to meet a man she's never met for the first time in a hotel room. But that's me. Love, love, love AdultFriendFinder!


McDawger 51M
49 posts
2/17/2018 4:25 am

I love to meet at a hotel...and fuck right away😘


Bmanus465 71M
46 posts
2/17/2018 5:42 pm

My first meeting was in a parking lot in my car. She was very nervous as we went to a hotel room. We spent the time in the room with me kissing her and talking about what I would do to make her happy. We never had sex that da but for every week after that for two years I got a room and we fucked for four hours each time.


nekkedcouple 63M/57F  
85 posts
2/18/2018 6:23 am

We usually meet at a bar. There have been several times when the guy doesn’t show up or he does and doesn’t look like his pictures, so it’s safer and easier to meet in public.

But we were at a hotel out of town on the last evening of a business trip/vacation this past Friday and we invited a guy over that we had chatted with online. He had sex with my wife for quite a while and then he left. We made love afterwards. Very erotic.


poullaki1982 42M

2/18/2018 2:43 pm

I met that woman from AdultFriendFinder at a bar in Athens. But nothing more happened


DiscreetAffairPA 47M
214 posts
2/19/2018 6:31 am

Any place public. First, it gives the woman more safety and security. Second, it gives either or both of you a way to back out easily if you're not comfortable.


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
2/19/2018 7:17 am

I usually prefer a restaurant or a coffee shop. It's a public place so everyone feels comfortable. You also get to know how the person is by the way they eat and treat the staff.


fancy_legs 52F  
190 posts
2/19/2018 8:48 am

First meeting is a restaurant , somewhere that is public. Safe place. Try to get off the rush timing so you can actually hear the conversation without yelling over the sport bar places. Going to a restaurant gives you more time to have a conversation with that person. See if there is any interest or connection for anymore to follow.


oldman1973 75M/38F
617 posts
2/19/2018 9:07 pm

We only ever meet others, Men, couples with bifems and single bifems or groups at our home, we enjoy a few days of uninterrupted sex fun every time


RealGuy4u101 60M

2/19/2018 9:30 pm

It all depends


shag46514 74M
51 posts
2/22/2018 9:39 am

Coffee shop or local park is good for first meet. Her house is good too. I think the strangest place was a first meeting on a bench across from the local police station. She felt really safe there, but we moved on. Where ever the lady feels most comfortable works for me.


SummerDances 48M
23 posts
2/23/2018 4:32 pm

Coffee shops or smoothie bars are where I have met most of my AdultFriendFinder dates


cumboi65 72M

3/2/2018 6:18 am

I've had luck on AdultFriendFinder and have always met at my home except for the occasional meet at his house.


Bagbag86 64M
4 posts
3/3/2018 2:49 am

I want one pussy one blow job. An get it right. I dont care if in the ladies room just do


Bagbag86 64M
4 posts
3/3/2018 3:02 am

Cum now damit


Baltofriendly 58M/54F

3/3/2018 7:28 am

For me it was the mall, very public and alot of places to sit and have a nice conversation and even get something to drink (coffee, coke)
It's also nice to go window shopping as you can walk around and talk about things you wanted to know or ask


AFFHW0000 63M

3/4/2018 5:54 pm

I think that a coffee shop is a good safe place to meet; public and a good place to talk and get to know each other.


Iwanaliku2 58M  
68 posts
3/20/2018 6:42 am

First choice - Coffee shop... Second choice - bar.... It's all about her feeling safe until we feel the connection...


lostboy4422 57M
24 posts
3/28/2018 11:17 am

First time was at a shopping center....worked out well...hotel was just next door


UrIceCreamMan69 70M
97 posts
4/12/2018 5:26 pm

A restaurant with a hotel close by.


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